Erotic massage for ladies. I am gentle and caring in my life and my work - sorry, I don't have tattoos or piercings. Then I went back two weeks later. This will provide the both of you with a sense of comfort and vulnerability, and it will make the experience that much more relaxed and enjoyable. The goal of this particular routine, then, will be to reduce stress in your partner and open her up to complete trust and vulnerability. A number of stressors can have their impact on women making it difficult for them to become aroused or achieve orgasm. With all that time spent around low lighting, soft music, and heavy rubbing, it can be tough not to think of sex. This article has been republished from Your Tango with full permission. Does it really exist or is it just myth?